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As much as your parents might like to continue living together, that may not be feasible if they have different care needs.
“As caregiving becomes more difficult in the home, alternative living arrangements are sometimes necessary for the safety of the couple,” affirms Daily.
Perhaps your parents won’t need to make a complete separation — a continuing care retirement community (CCRC) may have the resources available to meet each of their needs. But if that’s not the case, Dad and Mom may need to live apart. Financial resources, personal preferences and senior living community availability all play a role in determining the optimal living arrangements for your parents.
While it’s tempting to think staying together is always best, Daily believes there is no universal right or wrong answer when the needs of a couple are varied. The best choice for your family may be different from what’s right for another.
“Ultimately, it is your parents’ decision what type of living situation they want to pursue,” she says.
If it becomes clear that a separate senior living care situation is needed, consider these tips to help keep your family intact:
Though adjusting to a new living arrangement can be a challenge, it is possible to make it through with your family — and your sanity — intact.
“We cannot always change the circumstances as our parents age, but we can be helpful with shared decision-making, providing support and spending time,” says Daily.
Robyn Tellefsen is a New York City-based freelance writer and editor with more than 15 years of experience and hundreds of bylined articles. Her work has appeared on Chase, MSN, OurParents, Parent Society, SoFi, The CollegeBound Network and others.